Sunday, 16 October 2011

Fear Of Losing People You Love


I always have this fear of losing people i love the most and i am sure everyone does!
Be it losing them to death or losing them to another person or just losing them for our own mistakes!
We are so emotionally attached to some people that even the thought of losing them scares us.
When i say "People" it definitely includes you parents, your partner and even your friends some times.
You see, you fear losing someone because you may have invested too much of time and feeling for that person that the thought of it leaves you in a state of panic.
Parting happens in many ways , some of them are lack of trust or not been able to keep the promises made or not been expressive enough etc etc etc.
Now when i talk about myself i get attached to people really soon and people i meet they don't stick around for a long time, (Hard luck)
I have gone through this "losing people i love" phase many times and i know how it feels and its really not that easy. It just makes you feel helpless and so lost.
Many a times you lose people because you take them for granted, at times i have been selfish and took people for granted and i know i should not.
As a matter of fact i should be thankful to such people that they take the time to talk to me, be with me , listen to me , do everything i want, etc etc etc
I have few people in my life i don't wanna lose EVER! even if i think about losing them it shatters me and takes me to unexpected corners of life where i never want to be.
Lot of memories and question gushes into your mind! you feel like you will never be same without that person.
I just hope i don't lose them because i am not that strong anymore to let go of anyone else i love!

P.S:- The article or post is a little amateur as i have just started blogging :)